Singer Esther Akoth, best known as Akothee, has taken to social media to dish out some words of advice to single parents. The mother of five has on more than one occasion found herself as a single parent and this appears to have taught her a few hard lessons.

According to the ‘Baby Daddy’ singer, “we are all allowed to date and fall in love again. Having children doesn’t mean that your love life has to stop.”

Akothee also addressed the issue of single mothers turning to their Exes/Baby Daddies when dating fails

“If you still sleep with your Ex in the name of “he is my baby daddy what can I do ” oooh you will continue hurting to the grave,” wrote Akothee.

The ‘Benefactor’ singer revealed that she only keeps contacts of her ex for the sake of their children.

“I keep contacts with my Exes for the sake of our children, but a big NO to rekindle old flames,” she added.

This was her full post.

“To all single parents, we are all allowed to date and fall in love again. Having children doesn’t mean that your love life has to stop, some Exe’s are happy to see you single and desperate to the grave, it gives them fulfillment and makes them feel they were never wrong if the relationship didn’t work. As a woman, if you still sleep with your Ex in the name of “he is my baby daddy what can I do ” oooh you will continue hurting to the grave. No man will find you attractive for you keep on moving with your Exes spirits within you, a man can never say no to any available sex , you both don’t know what you want and that’s why you are unhappy. If a man can’t have you in public, then, don’t allow him to chew you in private, co-parenting doesn’t mean revising old past papers, some past papers are toxic ????, I keep contacts with my Exes for the sake of our children, but a big NO to rekindle old flames. I pray for all single parents to meet the love of their lives before the end of this year in Jesus name.”