Reverend Kathy Kiuna of Jubilee Christian Church (JCC) has taken modern couples to school on what entails a successful relationship or marriage.
According to the celebrity pastor, love is not a feeling but a choice, and this misconception is the reason why most relationships are failing.
“The reason why relationships are failing is coz people have misconceptions of love… People are leaving each other based on “IM NOT FEELING YOU”. Love is a choice. When you make a choice to love someone, you love them with their imperfections coz guess what, you’re not perfect either,” Kathy said.
Kathy’s wise words come amidst an ongoing social media debate about the pre-marriage tests by Dj Mo on Size 8.
The gospel Dj has been receiving stick for putting his wife through various tests to ascertain whether she was genuine.
According to Kathy, a “double-minded man is unstable in all his ways.”
The wife of Bishop Allan Kiuna penned the wise words in a long Instagram post outlining what has kept their marriage strong.
Read the full post below.
“Romans 13:8. Love is a law. Love is not a feeling . When you come to a red light on the road the law says you wait for the green light in order to drive. The feeling may be different coz your in a hurry, but you can’t drive by feelings, you have to follow the law.
Feelings keep changing so if you bank on them for the success of your marriage your looking for trouble. The reason why relationships are failing is coz people have misconceptions of love. When you love you fulfill the law. Laws are not driven by feelings otherwise every country would collapse.
People are leaving each other based on “IM NOT FEELING YOU” Love is a choice. When you make a choice to love someone, you love them with their imperfections coz guess what, your not perfect either. When out of billions of people you chose that one without a gun being held at you, you must love the choice you made.
A double-minded man is unstable in all his ways. Love is a commitment. When you commit, you don’t back out. You allow God to take center stage and help you navigate through every challenge. Every challenge makes you grow. Don’t run from commitment coz of challenge.
So three important lessons. Law, choice, commitment. These are some things that have kept us strong and helped us get closer as years go by. Your welcome 😜”