You’ve definitely read that article by Njoki Chege; the one saying that it’s your fault if you are fat and your husband cheats on you. It has been read by thousands of Kenyans, but if you’ve not, here’s an excerpt.
There are several reasons why a man cheats, but as a woman, have you ever thought that you could be the reason why your husband strayed? That you could have contributed one hundred per cent to driving him up the wall, so much that he couldn’t take it anymore?
I see you are getting vexed and disgusted, but truth be told, you are a contributing factor to your husband’s philandering ways and I have proof!
You are fat: I like to call a spade a spade, so when I see a fat girl, I will call her fat and not sugarcoat the truth (pun intended). Most married women I know are fat. Children or no children, you have lost your physical attractiveness and you have been reduced to a blob. Rolls upon rolls of fat and flesh jiggling around the city like nobody’s business. I look at some married women and I pity their husbands, asking myself “How do you get turned on by that?” or ‘How do you wash all that?” I understand that the vagaries of life and childbirth take its toll on a woman’s body but, ladies; can you shove this stinking attitude of ‘plus-size and loving it’? It is time women stopped lying to themselves that big is beautiful, that plus size is attractive and that what matters is what is on the inside. To hell with inner beauty! Who gets turned on by inner beauty? Who cares if you have a wonderful heart and a wiggly mass of flesh for a behind? Big is not beautiful. Those tires around your waist are not love handles; they are ugly, unsightly and downright unattractive. Those flabby arms are not sexy at all, they are disgusting to look at and you must tone them!
Those stretch marks are not beauty marks of childbirth, they are as a result of your uncontrolled consumption of insurmountable loads of food and you need to stop eating like a pig. A man can afford a potbelly and get away with being assumed as rich but an overweight woman is a disgrace to the womenfolk. Do away with your thunder thighs ladies, they are excess baggage you don’t need. If it has been two years since you had a child and your tummy still wobbles when you brush your teeth then you are a lazy bum who needs to find a treadmill right now. I don’t care if you have a busy schedule or four kids, if you have time to down an entire thermos of uji, then girl, you got time to hit the gym! Stop giving your husbands a tough time by expecting them to look away when they see a woman with a great body pass by when you resemble a baby hippo!
With all that vile against fat women, Njoki must be very proud of her body. We have photos and am sorry haters, there’s little for you to hate on. She’s beautiful and obviously not fat.
Check her out.